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How To Throw An Epic Friendsgiving

Throwing an unforgettable Friendsgiving is easier than you think! This guide breaks down everything you need to create a fun, memorable gathering with your closest friends. From planning the guest list to organizing a delicious potluck-style menu, decorating with a DIY banner, and keeping everyone entertained with games, this step-by-step list ensures your Friendsgiving is a hit.
Prep Time21 days
Cook Time2 days
Additional Time8 hours
Total Time23 days 8 hours
Course: Uncategorized
Keyword: Friendsgiving, party, Thanksgiving
Author: erynwhalen

Ingredients

  • 1 group of friends
  • 1 potluck-style meal coordinated with a sign-up sheet
  • 1 whole turkey or your choice of main dish
  • 5-10 side dishes mashed potatoes, stuffing, green bean casserole, etc.
  • 3-6 desserts pumpkin pie, apple pie, etc.
  • Assorted drinks wine, cocktails, or homemade wassail
  • Games and entertainment poker, Pictionary, or a bad movie marathon
  • Fun décor DIY Friendsgiving banner, balloons, and floral accents

Instructions

  • 2-3 weeks ahead:

    Create a guest list of your closest friends and send out invites. A casual social media event or group message works great!
    Use a sign-up sheet to coordinate dishes and avoid duplicate dishes. Make sure everyone knows what to bring to complete your Friendsgiving menu.
  • 1 week before:

    Plan your decorations, such as a DIY Friendsgiving banner and any additional festive touches like balloons or floral accents.
    Shop for your ingredients, including the main event like a whole turkey and staples like green bean casserole, stuffing, and gluten-free options if needed.
  • The day before:

    Prepare any dishes that can be made ahead of time, such as pies or appetizers.
  • Set up your dining space and kid-friendly area if needed.
  • Organize games or entertainment (don’t forget that $5 buy-in for poker if you’re playing!).
  • The day of:

    Start cooking your main dish (like the turkey) early, and ensure you have enough oven space. You can use slow cookers or warming trays to keep food warm on the counter.
  • Welcome your guests and have them place their potluck dishes on a designated table. Keep drinks handy in a cooler or serve a signature drink like Teri’s Wassail.
  • Once everyone is settled, serve up the feast! Don’t forget the mashed potatoes—they’re a Friendsgiving essential!
  • After the meal:

    Transition into games or entertainment to keep the energy up. Whether it's Pictionary, poker, or a worst movie marathon, have something planned to keep your guests engaged and laughing.
    Enjoy:

    Take a moment to look around, savor the good food, and enjoy the good company. This is what Friendsgiving is all about—great food, wonderful friends, and lifelong memories.

Notes

Timing is key: Host early in November to avoid clashing with other Thanksgiving celebrations.
Decorations can be simple or over the top. Even a small statement like a DIY banner will make your space feel festive!
Make it your own: Tailor the menu, games, and vibe to fit your crowd’s personality. This event is all about making memories with your real friends.